I don’t think it will take many guesses as to what I am feeling incensed about.
Living in the UK, watching from a distance, we hear news of another school tragedy in the US. I think we are all stunned. Famillies grief spread across the media. How awful to have to publicly share it. Children being interviewed about their fear, their experience. Makes me feel sick. Everyone shocked and horrified. How can this possibly be seen as almost normal, it’s happened again?
Friends and Family
The US is not a place I have ever visited, but have many friends there from my days living overseas. I have family there too, which also makes me feel very upset. Granted, with friends we didn’t always agree on everything, but we did a lot of life together. And were at times eachother’s family.
We haven’t discussed the most recent tragedy in the US. I am not sure if we will. Opinion can understandably be unwelcome. But I have discussed it with some people. And have watched various news reports and interviews with sadness and astonishment.
Culture
I appreciate that the UK and the US have very different cultures. Both a melting pot of heritage, but different. We here in the UK for example, don’t expect a bear to be rummaging through the bins or have a moose wandering through the back garden. Areas in both countries can be remote and cut off in different ways. Obviously more so in the US. But towns and cities have similarities in density of population.
So, the question is, why does it seem that many are resistant to change on firearm ownership and regulation? I don’t understand.
Comparison
In this country, following two tragedies, one in 1987 the other in 1996 (years apart, not weeks or months), the whole system was rapidly changed. And not without objection from various parties, I am sure. But it changed. Permanently! Has it removed gun crime? No, not all. But its certainly reduced the risks. And far fewer people have legal access to arms. The UK has some of the strictest regulations in the world, which continues with restrictions being assessed and gradually widened. Licence applications are stringent with many types of firearm in varying forms blanket banned. I have looked up the data, and an article reveals higher numbers of ownership than I realised. The data doesn’t leave me feeling at ease.
Experience
Some may think that because of where I live I have never seen a firearm, so what do I know. Wrong. I grew up with a father who enjoyed clay pigeon and target shooting. I was taught about firearm safety from a very young age. It was drummed in. The term ‘”check, check and check again” still springs to mind. He was stickler for safety. I have been in close proximity to people, perfectly normal people, at shoots and ranges who make your palms sweat. My palms have also sweat hearing game shoots in local woodland and on the fields during harvest.
I have been a beater on game shoots with shot pellets dropping through the trees on to my head, hoping no one points in the wrong direction whilst we were camouflaged by the trees, and longing for the flag to go up to call end of shoot. And walked up the range in the eerie silence as target sheets are changed after the supervisor has called all clear. I was terrified.
Much Needed Change
I am hearing a lot about wrong hands and wrong people. Yes, a person can bring a drone down with a tin of beans as a very brave woman did in the Ukraine. But if people don’t have access to assault rifles in their local cash & carry, it immediately reduces the risk of tragedy. Intentional or accidental. Why do people object to it? WHY? Reducing CO2 reduces pollution and global warming. Reducing weapons ownership/access reduces risk. In my humble opinion.
The Bloomberg Quicktake interview of the Golden State Warriors basketball coach Steve Kerr, which must have gone viral by now, I think reflects how many onlookers feel. The US seems at times a pretty forward thinking place, an amazing place, but at times really not.
Closing Thoughts
I am Engish (although brexited), and we do think differently. But on this the US needs to urgently to move with the times and implement better measures to protect innocent people, young and old. If people do feel that the biggest risk is a persons mental health, then put more checks and measures in place. Limit the choice. Limit access. Limit availability. Limit purchasing power. Just take the blinkers off and do something!
Those are my thoughts.
I pray the families will be comforted.
Philippians 4:7 And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
Much love


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We are holding on to our guns because we don’t want to lose our rights. Americans do not trust the government. We look at countries that have taken away guns and we see that they have much more control over the population. At least that’s the belief . I’m not a diehard gun fan, but I don’t trust the government. I live in Texas so this last killing spree hits close to home. The way we see it, the cops failed, the system failed, the culture failed . The boy is the one to blame, but nobody helped him when he obviously needed help. I’m waiting to hear more about his past couple of years. What was done to make sure he was cared for? Did he get counseling? Was he on medication? Did the school officials know he was disturbed? The system is failing at a time when many young people are struggling mentally and financially.
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Thank you for taking the time to comment, I really appreciate it. I have been having quite a lengthy discussion today with a Blogger in the US on their site. Its a complex situation for sure & I can understand your mistrust of government. Ours isn’t exactly great here. But I do feel that changes could be made that wouldn’t necessarily remove individuals rights, and would help community as a whole. But I don’t expect people to necessarily agree. It’s good that folk are talking about this subject. From where we are here, it’s so hard to see tragedy after tragedy unfold. As you probably know we have some of the strictest firearm regulations in the world in this country, and I’m not sorry that we do. Our country also has a crisis in mental health provision. Which many campaign about. I’m relieved that there is not easy access to firearms which might complicate matters further. I hope a good balance can be found in your country to bring fair & positive change for everyone.
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I hope so, too. 🙏
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